Saturday, June 28, 2008

Proud

As many of you know, I was not born in the United States. I came to America in 1981 when I was 10 years old. It was a difficult change because I was extremely shy and self-conscious. At school I felt I stuck out like a sore thumb. Everyone was really kind and friendly, but wanted me to talk all of the time so they could hear my English accent. Within one year my accent was almost completely gone, and an American accent took it's place. I couldn't have been more thrilled.
Over the years we visited England often to see family and friends. I love England and think there are some beautiful, quaint places with so much history and in my mind England remained my HOME. I felt this way for years and years.

At the point when I had lived in The United States longer than I had lived in England, my feelings began to gradually change. Several years ago my dad became a United States citizen. I couldn't do it though. I liked the fact that my British Citizenship made me different and kept me attached to my homeland. Then something changed. I'm not sure the exact moment, but it was after the events of 9/11. I decided that I was indeed an American. I saw citizens doing amazing things, fighting for life and liberty. I felt proud of this country and I realized that America was now home. This was again confirmed to me on our most recent trip to England this year. I absolutely loved our time there, but I was anxious to come home.

During the Spring of 2003 I had my first interview with an immigration officer in Spokane. I had to take a test to demonstrate my knowledge of the United States system of government and history. I had taken American history in school many times, but needed a refresher. This test I was studying for I believed to be one of the most important ones I would ever take.


A few months later, in August of that same year my mom, dad, Brent and I traveled to the Courthouse in Spokane for my mom and I to be sworn in. We stood in a courtroom in front of a judge with our right arms raised and repeated The Oath of Citizenship where we promised to:
"Renounce all allegiance to any foreign Prince, potentate, State or sovereignty......
and to support and defend the constitution of the United States against enemies."

The judge reminded us that everyone living in the United States had, at some point, had ancestors who came to America. She told us that this was our time. It was a very emotional experience and now Independence Day has a whole new meaning for me.

As July 4th approaches, I consider the blessings of this country and the opportunities that I have had because my parents brought me here almost 27 years ago. We fly an American flag outside our home to remind us that we are blessed.

18 comments:

::lindsay said...

Wow, Debie! Thanks for sharing your experience. I really enjoyed reading about it. I didn't realize you only got your citizenship a few years ago. Very cool.

I don't really remember too much about the day I got my citizenship. I was only 5. I do remember going to the courthouse though and I do remember working really hard on learning the Pledge of Allegiance and saying it out loud.

Jan said...

I am crying right now. Literally Deb. I am so moved by this. I remember it well for you. I am so happy for you and your mom to have done it together. It is so beautiful to me.

Welcome again to our country as a full citizen. I am so glad to call you friend and neighbor. I adore you.

Em and Ms said...

Thank you for sharing this. There's so many stories I don't know having come into the family later. Althouh, I didn't realize this happened after Matt and I were dating! This brings new perspective to the 4th of July.

SuzanSayz said...

That was so beautiful and touching Debi. I am really choked up, and I don't get choked up easily. You have really reminded me to be proud of my Country. It may be deeply flawed in some ways but there is nowhere on earth that I would rather live. I had no idea that it was such a short time ago that you became a citizen.
If only all the new citizens could be as honest, caring, dedicated and all around good guy as you are.

tharker said...

Thank you for this today Debie. I too had no idea that you did this only a few years ago.

I loved this title for the post. Proud is absolutely the best word that comes to mind. Thank you!!!

Deborama said...

That is so perfect! My Dad being in the Navy has always made sure we knew the blessings of living in the USA. I love right before a rodeo when the horses run around with the girl and the flag singing "Im proud to be an American" I always cry!

Ms. Kristen said...

What a wonderful tribute! Thanks for sharing! I loved the pictures! I love that you fly your flag in front of your home! God bless America!
But...as do I come from ancestors from Sweden...We are all Heavenly Fathers children.....we all stand unite!

ashley said...

What a great story, and thank you so much for sharing. You have such a great way of writing and telling your stories and experiences. This was a great reminder to remember what's really important for the fourth of July...besides thinking about bbqs, fireworks and having a day off work (although those are always fun too)!

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Sarah Jones said...

Don't you think its weird that I am the only one left with English citizenship and I am the only American-born one? It would be hard to have to pick one! We're excited to see you this week! (Sorry about that deleted comment - I accidentally posted it under David's account at first!)

Rachel said...

Debie, thanks for sharing your experience. It was very touching. Stories of our country and the sacrifices people make to keep it safe and free always touch my heart very deeply. I agree with the comment above about crying when I hear "proud to be an American". We are so blessed.

Jodi said...

I really enjoyed reading about your experience Debie! Thank you for sharing it with us. It was very touching.

Jeanette said...

I wish you kept your accent! I think accents are neat, except mine. :(

What a wonderful post and at a perfect time with the 4th of July so soon.

Elizabeth said...

I am so gald you became a citizen. I remember that trip so well. I remember walking into the building. I remember signing you in. I remember saying good buy to you so that you could go and become a citizen. Now I am older I understand it much better. I have to agree with jan. I just almost started crying. Whenever I think of american citizens I think of my old vetrins day assemaly whitch makes me want to cry even more. I will miss it. I love coming home from school, Friend's houses (mosltey mattie's ) and seeing you. I love you.
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donna said...

wow what a wonderful post girl... You are so sweet :)
HAve a great Sunday !

Emily said...

Thanks for sharing Debie! That is just awesome. So many of us take our citizenship for granted and you reminded me how PROUD I should be to be an American. Thanks.

Kris said...

I learned a lot from this post Debie. It's funny how if you are born in the USA how you take things for granted. I never understood what it takes to become a citizen. What a great experience to share with your mom.

Sonja said...

This is something I didn't know about you, how neat of you to share. This is a very patriotic post, it fits in perfectly with this time of year.